Signs of flirting - is he flirting with me? |
Question And Answer Category: Dating |
Question: |
| Hello BlankHelp Team, Not saying I live in a cave or anything, but sometimes men are hard to read. There are the obvious signs of flirting (if you call it that), from aggressive men. You know, they kinda stand over you, buy you drinks till you pass out, talk about their fast cars, etc. Tell you the truth, those signs of flirting are coming from men I want nothing to do with. I'm look for a more good lucking guy, not just looks, I mean inside. More intellectual, charitable, and good with a woman. One thing about these nicer quieter men, they don't make the obvious flirting signs. They are more hidden, and I can't tell if they are really interested in starting something. So, what signs of flirting should I look for to tell if he is flirting with me? thank you, Susan |
Our Advice and Answer: |
| Hello Susan, Men can be sometimes hard to read, if they don't think they have to push hard to get noticed. So, is he flirting with you? Well possible, if anytime you think to yourself this question, "Is he flirting with me?". Clearly you must have noticed something to even think about it, so his message could be very clear. Justincase, don't base everything on how you feel, since in certain, loud, dark, alcohol rich environments could give mixed signals. Here is list of signs of flirting some men seem to portray. - He seems interested in you, asks you what you are interested in. - He looks into your eyes a longer than normal. - He compliments to you. - He keeps the conversation going, during slow periods by making small talk, or saying dumb things. - He will touch you as you two talk, example, hand on hand or touching your arm. - He is making funny or silly jokes. Now small signs of interest is flirting, the signs of flirting you described earlier, as bragging about his car, or 'standing over you' seem more aggressive, and not flirting. Remember, if you feel 'special', or think 'is he flirting with me?', odds are he is. We hope this helps, and you find that special man. The BlankHelp Team |
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